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Well, thank you for showing me what it’s like to love (again) and be loved. Thank you for letting me realize that it’s okay to tear down my walls and let another person in — even if it’s only for a fleeting moment. Seconds of bliss are better than hours of solitude. You taught me that I shouldn’t hold onto someone just because it feels comfortable. I want real love, that love that consumes you and the other person until it hurts. The kind of connection that at every level is just inexplicably right. While you, you want it just safe and calm.
Thank you for arguing with me. You taught me the correct way to disagree, as well as the incorrect way. You pushed me to my breaking point, so now I know to never go there again.
Thank you for facing a tough decision with me. You taught me that I can survive the worst imaginable situation. That I can survive it with you. And, eventually, that I can survive it without you. I have learned that I cannot change the decisions I have made, but I can learn to live with them.
When I say that I want you to be happy, I mean it. We’re used to thinking that no one can just move on from a lost love and genuinely want the other person to find happiness somewhere else in life, but I do. It’s taken a while, but I’ve finally realized that we were simply not right for each other.
And as strange as this sounds, I would also like to thank you for cheating on me. As much as it sucked, and as hurt as I was, I came out of it a lot stronger than I ever knew I could be. You also showed me the importance of being really selective when it comes to choosing the person who you want to share your life with.
My bitterness towards everything you did is gone, replaced by only the memories of the happy parts of our relationship, and I really do wish you the best in everything you do in life. I hope you find happiness with someone and I hope you find that girl that completes you. I hope you two have the effortless kind of love we all want in our lives, with everything you need to make you feel special and happy and secure.
Thank you for all the wonderful moments we spent together. Thank you for sharing with me in your vulnerable moments. Thank you for letting my ears be the ones to listen to you when you needed to express yourself and needed an outlet. Thank you for holding my hand so many times. Thank you for every single nice thing you said and did to me. Thank you for being who you are.
Regardless of the kind of relationship we shared, I truly hope life is treating you kindly and you’re happier and healthier than ever. A part of me will always care for you. But I know that every part of me will forever feel grateful that our paths aligned for a certain period of time.
I learned a lot about myself, and this whole ordeal solidified my belief that everything happens for a reason and the universe works in ways which we don’t understand sometimes, and the best we can wish for is that everything falls to its proper places in time.
Happy 22nd birthday. All is well.
There is a big difference between recognizing mistakes and regretting them. I have made a lot of mistakes. But I regret very few of them, because mistakes are part of what got me to where I am now.
never give up. unless it’s too hard or involves asking me for help
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